So what is fair?
Is fair a natural state?
Is anything in nature fair?
Can anything be made fair?
Is there anything that approaches being totally fair?
Brian Brady wrote an excellent post on how consumers should dress to apply for a loan: How Should You Dress For Your Loan Application? it's the comments on that blog that bother me!
"Professionals" responding that it's not fair! They are right! It's not fair that anyone, consumer or real estate professional should have to dress for success!
No one should have to dress to impress, so go ahead and dress for failure! It's your right!
I have several core beliefs that I think are relevant.
1. I believe we find what we seek! So if you dress for failure more often than not you'll be dressed properly!
2. You only get one chance at a first impression!
3. There is always more than one way
, but why do things the hard way?
4. God helps those that help themselves!
Forty years ago educated hippies started promoting the idea that how we dressed had no affect on learning or education. Many of these ungrateful benefactors of their parents success when into education because it was the last and easiest draft exemption. As their anti-social cult expanded they promoted there perverted demagoguery! Eventually they convinced the courts of their "wisdom" based on the shear volume of their complaints. We all know what happened, today many schools haven't even consorted with education in two or three decades. But, the teachers and students do get to dress their way! Their students more often than not fail is blamed on discrimination not a lack of education or common sense.
Making a good first impression is common sense. Learning to make a good first impression is basic education!
Would be home buyers can dress any way they want! They will get good service, but they will never know just how much harder their LO might have worked for them had they made a good impression. It's not fair! But, it's often the key to success!
With that said, three of my favorite clients including the most famous made terrible first impressions!
Carl was covered from head to toe with caked on horse manure, Carl Hotave was possibly the most successful merchant in his community. Carl became a good friend and cleint. I still carry a gift he gave me almost every day.
I stopped at the small community of Jones, Michigan it was being rebuilt and restored to it 18th century glory. My timing was off the town was only opened week ends. As I walked the board walk looking into the vacant building I was approached by the night watchmen dressed in what looked like Salvation Army sheik carrying a large flash light and an even larger key ring. After showing me around for about two hours I tipped him $20 and bought us both a Coke. As we talked he ask what I did, I handed him my card. He read it he ask your in commercial real estate could you help me? Ya' sure, I could drive 50 miles to consult with the watchman! But, always polite I listened and he said he had some property he need to sell, then he gave me his card. Ed Low, President and Chairman of the Board, Low Industries. Strangely, I knew what Low Industries did, they sold absorbent clay to machines shops and garages. You many know them by their more consumer oriented product, Ed was the man that brought us "Kitty Litter!" Ed kep my $20 and I sold the property.
Eric, then about 4, and I were walking the "War Bird" flight line at the Experiential Aircraft convention when we were asked to help a grease covered mechanic working on a P-47 "Jug" could I crawl inside and hold a wrench while he tightened the bolt from under the plane? Could I? How much was it going to cost me, I'll pay! After the job was finished we talked. He said I looked familiar had I ever been to Kalamazoo? As I handed him my card I ask if he worked for Kal-Airo he said sorta! He handed me his card, Pete Parrish, Chairman of the Board The Upjohn company! Never did work for Pete, but he sent me another member of the Board and family member! O' he was the majority partner in Kal-Airo.
As real estate pro's we have to look beyound first impression, but as salesmen and consumers it helps to stack the deck in our favor!
Bill
William J Archambault Jr
The Real Estate Investment Institute
Bill
William J Archambault Jr
The Real Estate Investment Institute
wja@reii.org 832-259-7078 or 702-516-1569
From my past: GRI 1975, FLI 1974, Catalyst from a client 1974 an agent that makes things happen, REII, The Real Estate Investment Institute 1995.

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